Flawed Theology
A podcast about the logical, ethical, and emotional flaws in Christianity for Exvangelicals, current believers, and anyone in between.
A podcast about the logical, ethical, and emotional flaws in Christianity for Exvangelicals, current believers, and anyone in between.

If your theology were wrong, wouldn't you want to know?
Hi and welcome to the Flawed Theology podcast hosted by Phil and Susie. We are both ex-Christians from vastly different backgrounds, different stories, and different paths, that all led to the same place, namely, a life without belief in a god. We hope to unpack some of the flaws in Christianity and to facilitate discussions, questions, and most importantly, critical thinking around the idea of God and religion. We are not experts. We are travelers on a journey, looking for answers and being ok with only finding more questions.

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At the end of Season 1, we wanted to connect with our listeners and create a space where you can interact with each other and ask the “dangerous questions”—the ones we were forbidden to ask about God, religion, the origins of the universe, and many others. We’d love to hear from you, so visit the Dangerous Questions Facebook Group and join the conversation.
Episodes

May 7, 2023
S2E9 The One with the Milk Jug
May 7, 2023
May 7, 2023
1 hr 5 min
Prayer is a quintessential part of Xtian doctrine and is a mainstay of the life of the believer. Phil and Susie will delve into what prayer is, if it actually works, why and how people use the concept of prayer to give their faith more value/ meaning/ reality. Based a bit off of Susie’s blog post “Does Prayer Work?” which was the first post I ever read of hers. https://www.flawedtheology.com/2021/11/does-prayer-work.html We will discuss what “does it work” means and how we view prayer now, on the other side of faith versus how we viewed it before.
Show Notes and Links:
https://www.theodysseyonline.com/yes-no-wait
https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/prayer/why-we-pray.html
https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/prayer/how-to-pray.html
https://www.flawedtheology.com/2021/11/does-prayer-work.html
https://get.tithe.ly/blog/how-many-times-is-prayer-mentioned-in-the-bible
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2802370/
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May 7, 2023
1 hr 5 min

Apr 23, 2023
S2E8 The One with Robert
Apr 23, 2023
Apr 23, 2023
1 hr 15 min
In this extremely passionate episode, Phil and Susie talk with Robert Peoples, Founder and CEO of Affinis Humanity. Affinis Humanity is a non-profit organization strategizing to alleviate religious discrimination for secular communities in education, business, and government. Since establishing Affinis Humanity in 2016, Robert has highlighted the problematic woes of racism, women's rights, homophobia, and their connection with societal religiosity. They have a unique focus on Government and Education.
We talk with Robert about his faith background, how and why he started Affinis, the dangers of christian nationalism, theocracy, and fascism to our society. He explores the connection between christianity and racism and if humanism could actually be the most beneficial way to live and full and meaningful life. This is probably the most fun Phil and Susie have had during an interview and Robert's genuineness and passion for making the world a better place really shines through.
You can find Robert on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/affinishumanity/ and on his website https://linktr.ee/affinis_humanity
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Apr 23, 2023
1 hr 15 min

Apr 9, 2023
S2E7 The One with the Pla
Apr 9, 2023
Apr 9, 2023
1 hr 8 min
In this week's episode, Phil and Susie talk about the concept of “magical thinking” and how it is used by believers to explain things that they just don’t understand or to explain away things that they can’t logically defend. The common explanation for explaining the unexplainable for the believer is the “providence” or “sovereignty” of God, meaning God’s overarching plan for the universe and by extrapolation, one’s entire life. Phil and Susie ask, "Does God really have a plan? Is it a good one? What happens when people question the plan and what happens when we discover that there isn’t one?"
Show Notes and Links:
https://valerietarico.com/2018/10/02/why-people-believe-in-miracles-and-other-kinds-of-magic/
https://valerietarico.com/2018/10/09/the-human-mind-is-wired-for-magical-thinking/
https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/the-providence-of-god
https://bible.knowing-jesus.com/topics/God-Changing-His-Mind
https://www.crcna.org/welcome/beliefs/confessions/heidelberg-catechism
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Lamentations
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Apr 9, 2023
1 hr 8 min

Mar 26, 2023
S2E6:The One Down Under with Aaron
Mar 26, 2023
Mar 26, 2023
1 hr 5 min
In this episode, we have our first international guest, Aaron from Australia. Phil and Susie talk with Aaron about a wide variety of topics, including his faith background, childhood, and significant life events, some differences between Xtianity in Australia vs. the US, music, Hillsong, and worship leading. We also dig into how deconversion happened for him and a bit about grieving the loss of faith and how Xtianity shortcuts the grief process. It's a really enlightening and honest look at what it's like to give your whole life to a belief system and the courage it takes to take back that life for yourself. We hope you enjoy!
Phil's blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
Susie's blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
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Mar 26, 2023
1 hr 5 min

Mar 12, 2023
S2E5: The One with the Bad Boyfriend
Mar 12, 2023
Mar 12, 2023
1 hr 17 min
TW/CW: discussion about abuse, general
In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss that the idea that Xtianity is not a “religion, but a relationship” is flawed, but if believers want to maintain that it is a relationship, it’s certainly not a healthy one. We will discuss the ways the “relationship” that God has with his followers has numerous similarities to a human abusive relationship. This will hopefully be information to help you decide if the things you believe are harmful to your life or not.
We also highlight a really special "Good Human of the Week". Kristen from the Kitten Sanctuary talks with us about all things kitten rescue and how she and her organization do all the work with no help from any deity.
https://www.facebook.com/kristensfosterkittens
Show Notes and Links:
https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/domestic-abuse-warning-signs/
https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/2021/09/20/its-not-religion-its-a-relationship/
https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/gkq7f5/tifu_by_admitting_to_my_coworkers_that_my_wife/
https://www.gotquestions.org/born-sinners.html
https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/domestic-abuse-warning-signs/
https://www.openbible.info/topics/being_friends_with_non_christians
https://www.patheos.com/blogs/daylightatheism/essays/is-the-christian-relationship-with-god-healthy/
George Carlin on religion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPOfurmrjxo
Deuteronomy 28
Resources for human domestic violence
https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/
Mar 12, 2023
1 hr 17 min

Feb 26, 2023
S2E4: The One with the Morality Conundrum
Feb 26, 2023
Feb 26, 2023
51 min
In this episode, Phil and Susie talk about the origins of morality and if it's possible to be "good without God". We dig into the definitions of morality and discuss if morality is objective or subjective. We have both of our new segments in this episode, Flawed Theology and a truly inspiring Good Human of the Week story.
Show Notes and Links
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/religion-morality/
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/morality/what-is-objective-morality-what-can-it-teach-us/
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Feb 26, 2023
51 min

Feb 12, 2023
S2E3: The One with the Live Indoctrination
Feb 12, 2023
Feb 12, 2023
52 min
TW/CW: This episode features audio recorded from a church service/ baby dedication. If you are sensitive or triggered by church language or church services, please skip this episode or continue with the proper mindset and self-care.
In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss a baby dedication that Susie attended for her sister's child at a Seventh Day Adventist church. We dissect the pastor's dedication speech line by line and do some classic exegetical breakdown of everything he says and why it's such flawed theology. We talk about child indoctrination, secularism, the nature of belief and unbelief, and we delve into the 10 Commandments and discuss why they might not be such great guides to live by.
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Feb 12, 2023
52 min

Jan 29, 2023
S2E2: The One with Bart
Jan 29, 2023
Jan 29, 2023
1 hr 15 min
In this week's episode, Phil and Susie talk with Humanist Chaplain, Licensed Clinical Counselor, Coach, and our Good Human of the Week, Bart Campolo. Bart is the longtime host of the Humanize Me Podcast, author of "Why I Left, Why I Stayed" which he cowrote with his famous, evangelical father, Tony Campolo, following his deconversion from a life as a professional Christian, pastor, and evangelist He served as the first humanist chaplain at USC and now serves his community as a therapist and coach in Cincinnati and around the world. Our conversation covers a wide variety of topics, especially around the idea of morality, humanism, having meaningful conversations with people we care about, how to make the world a better place in a secular way, and so much more.
Bart’s Links:
https://humanizemepodcast.com/
https://www.patreon.com/humanizeme
https://bartcampolo.org/
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Jan 29, 2023
1 hr 15 min

About Phil
Phil is a former independent, fundamentalist Baptist pastor's kid who was quite literally, born into Christianity. He prayed the "sinner's prayer" at age 4 because he was afraid of Hell and lived the life of the "model Christian" for a very long time. He attended private Christian school from grades K-12, a one year Bible institute, and private Christian university. He has served as a camp pastor at a boy's camp, a youth leader, a college ministry leader, a worship leader at numerous churches, and filled numerous leadership positions in various churches. He currently lives in Virginia, with his wife, 4 kids, 1 dog, and 5 chickens. He is fascinated with space, enjoys tennis, soccer, throwing yoyos, cycling (indoor and outdoor) and works as an IT professional in "real life". His deconstruction journey has been long and had many twists and turns. He writes about his journey on his blog, www.philqmusings.wordpress.com.

About Susie
Susie is a recovering Missouri Synod Lutheran who has "really wanted to believe" her whole life. From an early age, she was too analytical and precocious to have a true belief, so she went through the motions of religion to not disappoint her family. Once she hit her breaking point, she tugged at a loose string of Christianity and watched it all unravel. She enjoys poking holes in the Bible and exploring the logical impossibilities of the Christian religion. Susie currently lives in Maryland with her husband, 2 kids, and 2 cats. In her free time, she loves reading, bike riding, pretending to be good at art, and learning Spanish.
Find out more about her journey on her blog: www.flawedtheology.com
People & Things We Like
Here are some links to things and people we like. Some have been guests on the show and some are just sites or organizations we want to support.
-Atheist Aesthetic Etsy Shop: A woman owned shop that has some very cool and creative secular clothing items and more.
https://www.etsy.com/shop/AtheistAesthetic
-Anthony Magnabosco & Street Epistemology: Anthony was a guest on our show and has a wealth of links to engage and inform about street epistemology.
https://linktr.ee/magnabosco https://anthonymagnabosco.com https://streetepistemology.com
-April Ajoy: April and her partner, Beecher, were on our show and are digital content creators on numerous social media platforms. She uses humor to criticize elements of fundamentalist Christianity.









