Flawed Theology
A podcast about the logical, ethical, and emotional flaws in Christianity for Exvangelicals, current believers, and anyone in between.
A podcast about the logical, ethical, and emotional flaws in Christianity for Exvangelicals, current believers, and anyone in between.

If your theology were wrong, wouldn't you want to know?
Hi and welcome to the Flawed Theology podcast hosted by Phil and Susie. We are both ex-Christians from vastly different backgrounds, different stories, and different paths, that all led to the same place, namely, a life without belief in a god. We hope to unpack some of the flaws in Christianity and to facilitate discussions, questions, and most importantly, critical thinking around the idea of God and religion. We are not experts. We are travelers on a journey, looking for answers and being ok with only finding more questions.

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At the end of Season 1, we wanted to connect with our listeners and create a space where you can interact with each other and ask the “dangerous questions”—the ones we were forbidden to ask about God, religion, the origins of the universe, and many others. We’d love to hear from you, so visit the Dangerous Questions Facebook Group and join the conversation.
Episodes

Mar 17, 2024
S3E3: The One with Helen
Mar 17, 2024
Mar 17, 2024
1 hr 21 sec
In this episode, Phil and Suzie talk with Helen Greene, Ambassador and Fundraising Coordinator for Recovering from Religion. In this wide-ranging conversation, Helen talks with us about her interesting journey away from faith from her Catholic upbringing, discovery of paganism, and eventual deconstruction to skepticism and atheism.
Helen comes from a diverse background of beliefs. Raised Roman Catholic, then rejecting the church to move into paganism, she was a pagan high priestess for 10 years during her time in that faith (which was 13 years). Eventually realizing through education and skeptical inquiry into herself, she came to the conclusion she had no solid evidence for her beliefs – which brought her to a more humanistic and realistic worldview. Still studying psychology even out of college, she spends her time trying to understand human behavior, the emotional and psychological understandings of ourselves, and what forms our perspectives and why. She is an ambassador for Recovering from Religion, head of their fundraising team, and one of the co-hosts of their Monday night podcast RfRx. She also volunteers at the Atheist Community of Austin, a rotating co-host of the podcast the Non Prophets, hosts a TikTok live The Queerly Godless Feminist via the ACA,and one Women Atheist Unload and Global Atheists at the Skeptic Haven YouTube channel. For fun, she enjoys horror (esp cosmic horror) and sci-fi movies, video gaming, and diving deep into made-up world-building stories such as the Lord of the Rings.
Helen's Links:
www.recoveringfromreligion.org
The Atheist Community of Austin https://atheist-community.org/
https://youtube.com/@TheNonProphetsACA?si=aR9VmZsuZwHgeQTB
https://youtube.com/@SkepticHaven?si=hcvsBRbJkxioSh9p
https://www.tiktok.com/@hellsbellssrq?_t=8kUAFrm9k6c&_r=1
Mar 17, 2024
1 hr 21 sec

Mar 10, 2024
Mar 10, 2024
8 min
In our first standalone Flawed Theology in Real Life segment, Phil and Susie analyze a clip where the concept of God creating evil is compared to the realities of cold and darkness. See if you think this theology is flawed and why?
Source Material: https://www.facebook.com/reel/3477048449227507
Mar 10, 2024
8 min

Mar 3, 2024
S3E2: The One with the Deconstruction Myths
Mar 3, 2024
Mar 3, 2024
1 hr 28 sec
As deconstruction and deconversion are becoming more prevalent in our world, the institutions of Xtianity are flailing to craft a response that will attempt to stem the tide of people leaving the faith, the church, and god himself. The “explanations” of why people are leaving, of course, they are not based in reality or facts, because most have never spoken with anyone who’s actually left to find out their real reasons. In this episode, Phil and Suzie debunk many of these common “myths” that the church attempts to sell as the real reasons for deconstruction.
Show Notes & Links
https://relevantmagazine.com/current/skillets-john-cooper-its-time-to-declare-war-against-this-deconstruction-christian-movement/
Data Nuggets: Catholics and Climate Change
https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/09/28/the-pope-is-concerned-about-climate-change-how-do-us-catholics-feel-about-it/
It's Not a Bug, It's a Feature: Conspiracy Theories
https://www.deseret.com/indepth/2021/3/28/22334183/what-group-of-christians-most-likely-believe-conspiracy-theories-white-evangelicals-qanon-faith/
https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2021/07/27/what-drives-belief-in-conspiracy-theories-a-lack-of-religion-or-too-much
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Mar 3, 2024
1 hr 28 sec

Feb 23, 2024
S3E1- BONUS Material | Cat Theology
Feb 23, 2024
Feb 23, 2024
5 min
In this bonus segment from episode 1, Phil and Susie talk about her cat, a fatal illness, and how it all relates to flawed theology. Enjoy!
Feb 23, 2024
5 min

Feb 18, 2024
S3E1: Season 3 Premiere | The One with Apostacie
Feb 18, 2024
Feb 18, 2024
1 hr 9 min
We are back for Season 3 and we are excited to be here! In this premiere episode, Phil and Susie catch on things since we took a break for the holidays and talk about what's to come in Season 3! We will introduce two new segments for this season, "Data Nuggets" and "It's Not a Bug, It's a Feature!"
Data Nuggets Link: https://www.npr.org/2024/01/24/1226371734/religious-nones-are-now-the-largest-single-group-in-the-u-s
It's not a bug, it's a feature! https://www.whsv.com/2024/02/02/ruckersville-church-pastor-arrested-charged-with-sexual-battery/
Over the break, Phil also had the chance to talk Stacie Grahn, aka Apostacie on Instagram and the host of the "Stacie's Mom Podcast" on YouTube. We had an incredible discussion about her life, faith background, and eventual deconstruction from charismatic christianity.
Stacie Bio:
Stacie Grahn was raised in a charismatic born-again Christian environment. In 2019, she began questioning her beliefs, which eventually led her to embrace atheism by 2021. Now an active voice online, Stacie shares her story to support others grappling with their faith. Together with her mom, who also transitioned away from religion, they host a podcast discussing their own processes as well as inviting other people on who have had similar experiences. Stacie lives in British Columbia Canada with her husband and 3 boys.
Stacie's links:
https://www.instagram.com/apostacie/
Stacie's Mom Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@thestaciesmompodcast
Secular Soapbox: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQ1xdPR2h5U&list=PLK-HLKx4ZI5vx4m0ebcVnqARHE7FKgNac
https://linktr.ee/apostacie
Stacie's Resources:
Thinking Atheist: https://www.thethinkingatheist.com/
MindShift: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZ1tYgwUDYAqGSE7RGLx5CQ
Recovering from Religion: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
The Line: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIv3LvN_0CNzMpSrTF9naNA
Street Epistemology: https://www.youtube.com/@magnabosco210
Paulogia: https://www.youtube.com/@Paulogia
Flawed Theology Links
https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com
www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions
Feb 18, 2024
1 hr 9 min

Nov 19, 2023
Nov 19, 2023
1 hr 26 min
In this episode, Phil and Susie wrap up the season with another Ask Us Anything session. We are excited to have a guest cohost, Arline from the Graceful Atheist Podcast!! We really had a blast with Arline and are so honored that she spent some time with us. Her insights and answers to your questions are just fantastic!!
We received a lot of great questions, which are listed below with timestamps:
8:40: Can you help me understand what the apologists think about verses such as “Happy is the one who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks?” And other garbage things? How do you not get bitter and angry as you deconstruct?
18:45: What seemingly-trivial ways have you reclaimed your identity that was suppressed as a Christian? Examples: watching R-rated movies, swearing, celebrating Halloween, wearing bikinis, doing things just because you like doing them, etc?
24:13: I would love to hear about books you recommend on the subject of dealing with leftover fear of hell. Also, which of the sects would you consider most insidious, and which, in your opinion, is more insidious than the majority of people realize?
30:11: My question is how to cope with stress after leaving religion? A lot of people pray when things are going bad because they feel that faith will relieve stress. I think it would be good if you shared strategies for dealing with emotions like fear and anxiety without religion.
37:04: Why or what caused you to change your beliefs? How was the transition? (how long it took, how it felt during & how it impacted those close to you). If you experienced trauma due to religion, how that experience impacted your life at the time of impact up to present life. Coping mechanisms for dealing with ptsd.Why or what caused you to change your beliefs? How was the transition? (how long it took, how it felt during & how it impacted those close to you). If you experienced trauma due to religion, how that experience impacted your life at the time of impact up to present life. Coping mechanisms for dealing with PTSD.
48:20: How do you find solace in death without belief in an afterlife? (If you do find any sort of comfort regarding that! It’s one of the biggest reasons I turned to religion for a long time.)
53:36: How or should you even come out to family and friends and if you do, how do you navigate the experience and keep your sanity? I live in a small Texas town which should say it all. I am also a small business owner which compounds my angst about this topic.
59.16: Why are women "second class" and why do they accept that? The whole serve your master, obey your husband is swallowed by so many SMART women. Religion is just so highly macho and being told from birth that you are there to serve must be so hard to recover from. For those who managed to escape, when was the seed planted that women are people too and what was the last straw that allowed them to get out?
1:09: Given that evidence suggests humans have no soul and therefore no free will, how should we change the way we treat others or hold them responsible for the harm they do?
Show Notes and Links
Graceful Atheist Podcast: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/graceful-atheist-podcast-1136736
GAP Facebook Group/ Deconversion Anonymous: https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion
The Thinking Atheist: https://www.thethinkingatheist.com/
Dangerous Questions Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions
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Nov 19, 2023
1 hr 26 min

Nov 5, 2023
S2E19 The One with No Soul
Nov 5, 2023
Nov 5, 2023
1 hr 12 min
In this episode, we will discuss the idea of “the soul” and how it relates to the afterlife. Is there evidence for the existence of the soul? If the soul doesn’t exist, then what does this mean for the idea of the “afterlife”. Follow this thread further to make the point that basing one’s life on the potential eternality of our existence after death is flawed and how and why to make the most of this life, if it’s truly the only one we have.
Show Notes and Links:
https://www.britannica.com/topic/soul-religion-and-philosophy
https://qz.com/789780/neuroscience-and-psychology-have-rendered-it-basically-unnecessary-to-have-a-soul
https://qz.com/1569158/neuroscientists-read-unconscious-brain-activity-to-predict-decisions
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2021/11/23/views-on-the-afterlife/
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/07/110714103828.htm
https://www.cambridge.org/engage/api-gateway/coe/assets/orp/resource/item/64dab58669bfb8925af0af8e/original/consciousness-and-afterlife-in-the-evolution-of-intelligence.pd
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6172100/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E4Tw21YBww
Seeing Through Christianity by Bill Zuersher https://www.amazon.com/Seeing-through-Christianity-Critique-Evidence/dp/1499018495
Evolution of God by Robert Wright https://www.amazon.com/Seeing-through-Christianity-Critique-Evidence/dp/1499018495
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Nov 5, 2023
1 hr 12 min

Oct 22, 2023
S2E18 The One with the Real Jesus
Oct 22, 2023
Oct 22, 2023
1 hr 3 min
In this episode, Phil and Susie attempt to tackle a really broad subject, the historical Jesus. We want to be clear that we are not biblical scholars and that there is no way in the course of this episode that we are going to provide definitive answers to the questions we will be asking today. Biblical scholars have dedicated their whole lives to this topic and we hope to spark your interest in the topic, just as we have been fascinated by it. We are going to try to address 3 main questions about Jesus, and the reason that we are tackling these questions is because a lot of Xtians like to say that their faith is “not a religion”, but is “all about Jesus”.
So, like Slim Shady, we’re asking the real Jesus to “please stand up”.
Episode Sections
Intro (:24)
Topic Intro (3:28)
Did the Jesus as described in the Gospels Exist? (21:35)
What External Validation Do We Have? (35:30)
Did the Historical Jesus Exist (49:55)
Discussion about Bias (55:03)
Notes and Links
https://jamesbishopblog.com/2021/01/08/the-historical-jesus-as-an-apocalyptic-prophet/
https://ehrmanblog.org/did-jesus-call-himself-god/
https://www.flawedtheology.com/2022/01/did-jesus-ride-two-donkeys-into.html
https://coldcasechristianity.com/writings/a-thorough-guide-to-the-non-canonical-gospels/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Historical_Jesus
https://vridar.org/2016/03/28/bart-ehrman-jesus-before-the-gospels-basic-element-3-oral-tradition/
https://ehrmanblog.org/did-the-triumphal-entry-really-happen/
Oct 22, 2023
1 hr 3 min

About Phil
Phil is a former independent, fundamentalist Baptist pastor's kid who was quite literally, born into Christianity. He prayed the "sinner's prayer" at age 4 because he was afraid of Hell and lived the life of the "model Christian" for a very long time. He attended private Christian school from grades K-12, a one year Bible institute, and private Christian university. He has served as a camp pastor at a boy's camp, a youth leader, a college ministry leader, a worship leader at numerous churches, and filled numerous leadership positions in various churches. He currently lives in Virginia, with his wife, 4 kids, 1 dog, and 5 chickens. He is fascinated with space, enjoys tennis, soccer, throwing yoyos, cycling (indoor and outdoor) and works as an IT professional in "real life". His deconstruction journey has been long and had many twists and turns. He writes about his journey on his blog, www.philqmusings.wordpress.com.

About Susie
Susie is a recovering Missouri Synod Lutheran who has "really wanted to believe" her whole life. From an early age, she was too analytical and precocious to have a true belief, so she went through the motions of religion to not disappoint her family. Once she hit her breaking point, she tugged at a loose string of Christianity and watched it all unravel. She enjoys poking holes in the Bible and exploring the logical impossibilities of the Christian religion. Susie currently lives in Maryland with her husband, 2 kids, and 2 cats. In her free time, she loves reading, bike riding, pretending to be good at art, and learning Spanish.
Find out more about her journey on her blog: www.flawedtheology.com
People & Things We Like
Here are some links to things and people we like. Some have been guests on the show and some are just sites or organizations we want to support.
-Atheist Aesthetic Etsy Shop: A woman owned shop that has some very cool and creative secular clothing items and more.
https://www.etsy.com/shop/AtheistAesthetic
-Anthony Magnabosco & Street Epistemology: Anthony was a guest on our show and has a wealth of links to engage and inform about street epistemology.
https://linktr.ee/magnabosco https://anthonymagnabosco.com https://streetepistemology.com
-April Ajoy: April and her partner, Beecher, were on our show and are digital content creators on numerous social media platforms. She uses humor to criticize elements of fundamentalist Christianity.









